7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
Habit 4
4. Think win-win
Teens can learn to foster the belief that it is possible
to create an atmosphere of win-win in every relationship. This habit encourages
the ideas that in any give discussion or situation both parties can arrive at a
mutually beneficial solution. You teen will learn to celebrate the
accomplishments of others instead of being threatened by them. Win-win is a
belief that everyone can win. It’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t
step on you, but I won’t be your doormat either. You care about other people
and you want them to succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to
succeed as well. Win- Win is abundant. It is
the belief that there’s plenty of success to go around. It’s not either you or
me. It’s both of us. It’s not a matter of who gets the biggest piece of the
pie. There’s more than enough food for everyone. It’s an all-you-can-eat
buffet.
Win-win always
creates more. Perhaps the most surprising benefits of thinking win-win is the
good feelings it brings on. The true test of whether or not you are thinking
win-win or one of the alternatives is how you feel. Win-lose and lose-win
thinking will cloud your judgment and fill you with negative feelings.
Win-win will
fill your hear with happy and serene thoughts. It will give you confidence. Even
fill you with light. Think win-win or no deal.
Choose the right!!!
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